🤯 What if you just 'let them' at work?

Applying Mel Robbins' 'Let Them Theory' in the workplace

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People will do what they want to do.

And most of the time, it has nothing to do with you.

That’s the basis of Mel Robbins’ ā€œLet Themā€ theory—it’s like giving yourself permission to stop wasting energy on things (and people) you cannot control.

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Instead of stressing over every little thing your coworkers, manager, or team members do, you just…let them. Simple, yeah? But likely not easy. Here are a few ways to get started:

  • Let them fail. Failure is an unavoidable part of growth. By applying the ā€˜let them theory’ and cultivating psychological safety, we remind people that failure isn’t the enemy—it’s how we grow. Mel Robbins says ā€œYou can’t protect someone from failure, and you shouldn’t try. Let them fail so they can rise.ā€

  • Let them lead. Millennials and Gen Z workers are looking for ways to take initiative and create meaningful change. By letting them lead, workplaces empower people to step up and are reaping the rewards in innovation and engagement. Robbins says ā€œIf they want to step up, let them show you what they can do.ā€

  • Let them set boundaries, too. Gone are the days of glorifying burnout. People want to do great work—but not at the expense of their well-being. ā€œLet them say no. Let them protect their timeā€ is a call to action for workplaces to honor boundaries.

For more on the Mel Robbins’ ā€˜Let Them Theory’ and actionable ways to apply it in the workplace, read on.

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