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Applying Mel Robbins' 'Let Them Theory' in the workplace
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People will do what they want to do.
And most of the time, it has nothing to do with you.
Thatās the basis of Mel Robbinsā āLet Themā theoryāitās like giving yourself permission to stop wasting energy on things (and people) you cannot control.

Instead of stressing over every little thing your coworkers, manager, or team members do, you justā¦let them. Simple, yeah? But likely not easy. Here are a few ways to get started:
Let them fail. Failure is an unavoidable part of growth. By applying the ālet them theoryā and cultivating psychological safety, we remind people that failure isnāt the enemyāitās how we grow. Mel Robbins says āYou canāt protect someone from failure, and you shouldnāt try. Let them fail so they can rise.ā
Let them lead. Millennials and Gen Z workers are looking for ways to take initiative and create meaningful change. By letting them lead, workplaces empower people to step up and are reaping the rewards in innovation and engagement. Robbins says āIf they want to step up, let them show you what they can do.ā
Let them set boundaries, too. Gone are the days of glorifying burnout. People want to do great workābut not at the expense of their well-being. āLet them say no. Let them protect their timeā is a call to action for workplaces to honor boundaries.
For more on the Mel Robbinsā āLet Them Theoryā and actionable ways to apply it in the workplace, read on.

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